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How do you hold both?

kristylynnferris

Another phone call with disappointing news

Things aren’t progressing as we’d hoped

Time to add another injection

Time to add more bruises to my stomach

All for a maybe, a might


Processing while watching little kids play in the surf

I wonder how they came to be

Did their parents struggle to bring them into existence?

What would our child look like?


How much more bad news can I take?

How can I hold hope and sadness at the same time?

How do I keep going?

How could I even think about stopping?


These thoughts swirl in my head as I sit gazing into the ocean

I’ve meditated

I’ve acupunctured

I've yogaed

I’m trying

I’m deeply sad


I’m trying to hold onto the light of hope, but it’s difficult to grasp 

It’s sand slipping through my fingers

I want to build a castle with it, but it keeps falling

Each grain, an ounce of hope that whispers, ‘keep going’

Each gust of wind and tidal wave, sadness and reality threatening to tear it all down 


I hold the pieces of hope in my hands like a collection of broken shells

The ocean invites me to throw them back in

The shore beckons me to use them to fortify my crumbling castle


Plovers chirp

Waves crash

Crabs burrow

And I cry

 
 
 

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